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I’m not a scary guy

Safe in your nice living room are you? No threat of having your hand cut off at the next election? Haven’t seen your wife, sister or mother raped lately? Not about to have your house burned or bombed? What if any of this applied to you? 150 (approx) people died recently trying to find freedom and safety, yet politicians want to point score rather than find a humanitarian solution.

The heading is today’s prize quote from Australia’s Minister for Immigration and Citizenship.  Well, no, he isn’t really, I agree.  What I find distressing is we have (primarily) four politicians on the mainstream sides of politics playing political football with the lives of asylum seekers yet again.  Twitter is awash with it, the papers are reporting in various shades of objectivity and subjectivity.  The loss of approximately 150 lives on a boat carrying more than double capacity gives plenty of point scoring opportunities to both sides of the house.  How about caring for the people and stopping the point scoring?

Asylum seekers on the roof of Villawood Immigr...

Asylum seekers on the roof of Villawood Immigration Detention Centre, Sydney (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Good grief, just find a humanitarian way to take care of our fellow humans.  It can’t be that damn hard!  I agree WE are not responsible for the problems from which others flee. I believe (atheist that I am) we should remember “there but for the grace of God go I”.  Yet again I say, the von Trapp family, in the movie The Sound of Music, were asylum seekers.  They just didn’t catch a boat, they climbed mountains.

A tweet I saw today:

Chatting to a South African guy. He laughed at our concern about #refugees. We get a few thousand a year: they get a few thousand a week.

@JulianBurnside

Julian drew my attention to an article by Michael Brull. Continue Reading »

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Application of Stereotypes – revisited

Back in December last year I wrote about the Application of Stereotypes.

All Americans have big hair and perfect teethDo they?  Not in my experience.
The English only bath once a weekHighly unlikely, don’t you think?
Australians are all binge drinkersAs a nation we have a well documented problem in this regard, yes, but to tar us all with the same brush?

Recently I wrote about people’s reactions to a family of mixed hue in Yes, they are mine.

Even after 10 months, I find myself still infuriated by the use of stereotyping in our case.  Furthermore, my feathers are still ruffled that no-one in officialdom seemed to think the words I objected to were stereotyping, or quite simply the people I spoke to didn’t understand the concept of stereotyping.  As I reflect back, I wonder how many of us in life are subjected to stereotyping in our daily life.

Some stereotyping is now illegal in Australia.  “She is young, she’ll get married and have children and leave, don’t employ her” is one such example.  However, just because something is illegal, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen!

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Is the law an ass?

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Charles Dickens must have felt there was some truth to the thought, as the character of Mr Bumble expresses this sentiment in Oliver Twist.

I have been trying to find a way to seek restitution from the Government for the financial, emotional and physical costs incurred during our journey.  It seems that should I be careless or negligent and have a car accident, I am liable and held accountable for any damage caused, but should a government department be careless or negligent and nearly destroy people’s lives, that is just bad luck.  I find this not only incomprehensible but morally reprehensible.  If a person is wrongfully imprisoned, that person is entitled to compensation.   If a person is injured at work, the employer may be liable if the workplace is found to be unsafe.  I must have insurance in case someone trips on my steps and breaks a leg, for goodness sake.

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Reflections: Feeling The Glow Of Love… (via Mirth and Motivation)

Elizabeth published this today and it rang so true for me, for us! Please visit Elizabeth and enjoy her amazing selection of songs about love. I am certainly enjoying them immensely!

Reflections: Feeling The Glow Of Love... “A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy.” George Jean Nathan … Read More

via Mirth and Motivation

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Its Funny Cos Its True (via Tinkerbelle86’s Blog)

I loved this so much, I had to share! I feel so short of sleep lately, this is almost how I feel some days. Although I have to say now I have Mr O to warm up the bed, it isn’t exactly uncomfortable – but I still love the graph!

Its Funny Cos Its True Another classic from the funny guys at Graph Jam; this is so true. I cannot get up in the morning; I look like some sort of forest dweller that has birds living in her hair, and without a cup of tea I can only converse in grunts. Just ask my housemates.   … Read More

via Tinkerbelle86’s Blog

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Do you need representation for a Partner Visa?

On Partner/Spouse Visa Denied? I don’t specifically recommend representation by a migration agent or lawyer for either an initial visa application or an MRT appeal.  Each couple must make their own decision.  These are my personal thoughts on this question.  I re-iterate my statement from Applying for a partner visa?: I am NOT a migration agent.  Anything I say here is said as a person, just like yourself, going through the system, sharing observations and experiences: it does not constitute formal professional advice.

On the face of it, applying for a partner visa, especially if you are legally married, doesn’t seem too difficult.  Yes, there are a myriad of forms to be completed which delve into more of your family history than you yourself may actually know.  I had to ask my brother and sister for some of the dates required.

You love each other, you want to be together: you may not even realise that being granted a partner visa is anything more than a formality.  I know a lot of people believe if they are married, or not married but meet the criteria for interdependency, the visa will be granted.  Let us be very clear this is NOT the case.

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Why am I an atheist?

A few years ago this question cropped up a fair bit in speaking to Americans particularly. No-one in Australia would bother asking – they’d probably assume I was anyway. I took a few minutes back then to give my perspective on things and am sharing it now. This may not be for everyone to read, depending on your own perspective. These are MY views – I am in no way speaking for any other atheist.