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February 20, 2012

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200 unread emails and 200 apologies

by Team Oyeniyi

To all those wonderful writers I should be reading, my sincere apologies.  I have 200 emails notifying me of new articles I haven’t read.  It only shows 199 because I just opened one and realised I just don’t have the energy to read.  All I want to do is sleep.

A heap of emails

I keep kidding myself I am going to catch up, but it isn’t going to happen. I am sorry. So many of you are loyal followers of Love versus Goliath and I feel guilty not returning the loyalty. I also miss reading your great work! However, given what is happening in my life at the moment, I just have to accept I can only spread myself so far.  I hope to be back on deck soon, but right now I am going to bite the bullet and delete those 200 emails.  I have to because they are haunting me but I know I’m not going to get there.

Please accept my apologies and know that I am feeling I am going to miss out on something special, but I just have to stop trying to be Wonder Woman again!  I will stop by when I can: please forgive me if I don’t comment.  I am still following, I see this as a temporary time-out only!
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  1. Feb 28 2012

    Welcome to the club… I had 2000 emails yesterday and 700 or so are blog posts from people I follow… I am behind and need to resolve this soon and take some time off.

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    • Feb 28 2012

      Elizabeth, I’ve decided on a strategy, I think. Open to modification. There are few I try to read every article published, but I’ve realised I simply CAN NOT do that with every blog I follow. So I will try to get to all the others as many times a week as I can, but aim for a minimum of once a week. That way I stand a chance of at least keeping in touch and up-to-date. I have to recognise my life just has SO MUCH more in it than it did 12 months ago!

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      • Feb 28 2012

        Same here… not enough hours in the day. ;-)

  2. Feb 24 2012

    I also have an email backlog due to a health and vision problem but I’m slowly catching up. :)

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    • Feb 24 2012

      Glad to see you are improving, TiTi. I saw from your posts in the Forums you were on a recovery path and was glad to see you were progressing, but I gathered it was a bit of a tough journey. I hope the surgery has been successful!

      Reply
  3. Feb 22 2012

    I just hope you get to read my comments – they are all ending up either in spam or not showing anymore….grrrrrrrrrrrr

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    • Feb 22 2012

      I got this one Jo, in spam. Did you make any others I didn’t see, as this was the only one in spam.

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  4. Feb 22 2012

    No worries. We’ve all done it. I’ve been absolutely awful lately. In fact, I was going to check my email to see if you’d written a new post, but decided to come straight here and avoid seeing all those unread emails.

    You need your rest and we all understand that completely. Take care of yourself!

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    • Feb 22 2012

      Thanks Erin. I got the all clear tonight! Very happy! Now I just need to go back to concentrating on getting my back into shape. I still need rest and recuperation for that, but the biggest worry is OVER!

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      • Feb 23 2012

        Woo-hoo! So happy!

      • Feb 23 2012

        US too, trust me! It was the optometrists that got me worried really. I would never have considered it a possibility until they frightened the hell out of me! The fact I was having (and have) the headaches was something that “fitted” with the whole scenario, so it kind of snowballed.

    • Feb 22 2012

      Veeh, thank you very much, but at this time I am not taking on any extra stuff to do, so it may be a little while before I manage to participate. Please forgive me.

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  5. Feb 21 2012

    Hey Team O, Smart woman. Every now and then we need to delete the workload and move on.

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  6. Feb 21 2012

    Take care and rest well, don’t even think of replying either :-)

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    • Feb 21 2012

      No Gilly, replying on my own site is a policy of mine that I can’t relax: unless there is really a disaster! :lol:

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  7. Feb 21 2012

    Delete away girl… it’s impossible to keep up sometimes ( I’ve just deleted a load to !!! )

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  8. Take your time Robyn. Nothing is more important than your health and the well being of your family. They come first. Enjoy them and enjoy your sleep.

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    • Feb 21 2012

      This is so true, Jayrod. No point in having a site myself if I can’t keep producing it, either!

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  9. Feb 21 2012

    Robyn, i make sure i clear them every day but i have lots of time to do that.

    I only subscribe to comments a few times ( when i expext a reply ) and that cuts down the emails.

    But i always reply to comments i think its a must.

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    • Feb 21 2012

      Harry, I never subscribe to comments – I just follow a lot of blogs! or at least the ones I follow write a lot!

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  10. Feb 21 2012

    Good for you, Robyn.

    Moments of freedom will never be given to you . . . you must TAKE them. :D

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    • Feb 21 2012

      Now that is very true, Nancy, thank you for the reminder.

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  11. Feb 21 2012

    Don´t you worry about that Robyn, you´ve done the right thing, out of sight out of mind! Just take some time to recover.

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    • Feb 21 2012

      One sleep to go before I get my results – that will help, I am sure.

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  12. Feb 21 2012

    None of us can do this blogging thing, writing, reading and commenting, consistently 365 days a year. Life gets in the ways sometimes and that’s okay. You’ll be back when the time is right… and we’ll all still be here! :-)

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    • Feb 21 2012

      That is true Steve, so true! Especially with a large family! Thank you for understanding!

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  13. Feb 20 2012

    Hey Robyn,
    Have some YOU time and relax…
    xxPiP

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  14. Feb 20 2012

    I have laughed so hard after seeing your headline. Robin, I know exactly what you mean. I was in a similar predicament I felt stuck. There were so many mails to read and such little time. I could not understand how I gotten myself to such a situation, I actually had about 500 unread mails, was feeling like crying. I however, summoned enough energy and marked all as read :( It did good to my mind, like a white lie. To ensure I never find myself in such a situation again, I have created a page of the bloggers I love and I have also promised to read and act on an email immediately I open it. Yours just landed, and am so happy you wrote about the same thing I have been dealing with. This is wonderful ;)

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    • Feb 20 2012

      :lol: I am SO GLAD I am not the only one.

      I have just deleted the 200 so I don’t feel pressured. I did go through a stage of trying to act on them immediately, but with the time zone differences, it just doesn’t happen. Tonight I didn’t get home until nearly 7pm. By the time I cooked dinner, organised kids, talked to my husband I don’t even have time to write, let alone read. I am so tired of late.

      It was time to bite the bullet!

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