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June 2, 2011

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My family is in the air!

by Team Oyeniyi
Family

It is happening!  Qatar Airways have my family safely en route! I have waited so long to write this, to share what was happening.  Astute followers may have twigged that I had bought the tickets when I wrote about The winning airline is, or we were pretty close when I was standing naked and blue at 2am in the morning in Australia, trying to have passports collected in Nigeria.

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At one point earlier in the week, John had been confused about which day he was flying and scared the living daylights out of me when he had said as long as the passports arrived by Friday morning it would be OK.  We had talked about a Friday departure at length, then at the last minute I decided Thursday was better, as they would arrive here on the Friday night, giving us an extra day together.  After the passport saga, I asked him “What day are you flying?” and he responded “Saturday!!!”.  We needed the laugh, it was great!

As my lovely family are now actually on the way home, I am restructuring this site a little over the next few days.  I hope that my family will also write from time to time and share their new experiences.  To that end I have created a new section, Our New Life, where each family member will be listed.  They may find the concept a little daunting, especially at first, so we may or may not see articles from John and our children.

This article is both the last of the regular Partner Visa articles and the first of the Our New Life articles.  I will write more Partner Visa articles from time to time, but certainly our focus now is enjoying being together after all this time.

I have next week off work and already the diary is full.  School interviews, English proficiency tests, I broke a tooth this morning so a dental visit is scheduled.  School uniform shopping!

I have spoken to John a couple of times.  I am excited, he is nervous.  For him this is a BIG journey to a new life.  The children have never flown before.  I can always tell exactly how he is feeling from his voice.  Best to just let him deal with getting them all to the airport and checked in!  He sounded a lot happier about to board!  I told him he had sounded stressed, which had me worried.  He replied, “I’m managing four children”!  OK – fair call, I thought!

Immediately before this post I have published From Hidden to Visible, an explanation of the disappearance of several articles back in March, with links to those articles for those who want to fill in the gaps.

The following photo is a terrible photo of each and every one of us, but it is the only photo I have with all four of us in it.  Heaps of photos with some of us.  Yes, our children look a little shocked.  They had met me about 10 minutes before this photo was taken: under those circumstances, I’d be shocked too!  Their father had returned to them a mere six weeks before that, after nearly six years away – the youngest was two when he left.  It had been a whirlwind few weeks for them, I am sure.

From left (of the screen) to right, front row: Mr O Jnr 1 (otherwise known as John’s mini-me), Mr O Jnr 2, Miss O 2, Miss O 1.

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    • Mar 31 2012

      Thank you! 10 months down the track, we are getting it together! :D

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  1. Feb 17 2012

    What a beautiful family!

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  2. Feb 3 2012

    What a great-looking team! Congrats!

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    • Feb 3 2012

      Thanks Hook! We look a lot better 19 months down the track! :) Mr O Jnr 1 has grown out of site – he is almost as tall as me now and I just noticed the beginnings of a moustache!

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  3. Jan 22 2012

    Woww… so much drama in here. I’ve just read your About page, then I read ‘I Remember Your Touch….’, and then ended here. Congratulation for both of you. Hopefully this will make your family stronger than ever. :)

    Regards,

    Nando

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    • Jan 22 2012

      Hi Nando – thanks for stopping by! Yes, I guess you could say there is a bit of drama in our lives. What is published here is just what I could publish at the time. Wait for the book!

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      • Jan 22 2012

        No, I’ll wait for the movie…. :)

      • Jan 22 2012

        Hopefully that will come to be! :D

  4. Sep 22 2011

    oh my god you know when a smile bubbles up in your throat and you have to supress it becuase everyone will want to know why? i just did that at work. so pleased for you and yours, you look so happy. made my day even though im a bit late to the party! hope the last 2 months have been everything you could have dreamed of. lots of love xxx

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    • Sep 22 2011

      Thanks Tinkerbelle! I’ve just been over catching up on your writings, so this is a co-incidence! You are commenting on me and I’m commenting on you!

      We are having a great time. Lots of adjustments, of course, but we are doing great!

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  5. Aug 21 2011

    Hi Robyn, thanks for coming by my blog via Piglet in Portugal. I have in turn just come to check your blog and I feel for all you have gone through for a spousal visa. We have been here on a 457 visa with a few hiccups so I know what it´s like.
    Sometimes I wish the rules weren´t just followed to the letter, but that there should be some sort of interview process, where DIAC could get to talk to you and see what you have achieved, etc, etc, and then make a decision. Anyway, you have had bigger problems!!
    All the best, you are a fighter and hopefully the power people will listen to you and anyone else´s complaints.

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    • Aug 22 2011

      Thanks for returning the visit! Nice to hear from another visa sub-class that they see problems too!

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  6. Aug 17 2011

    Yay! Yay! Yay!

    Good luck as the path continues to unfold before ALL of you! :D

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    • Aug 17 2011

      It is a wonderful time! Thanks for dropping buy! A lot has happened since that wonderful day!

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    • Aug 17 2011

      When I clicked on your gravatar . . . this is the article that opened up. At first, I didn’t notice the date and assumed it was your most recent post.

      After my comment posted, I noticed that I’m about 10 weeks late. :D

      I’ll join the celebration belatedly.

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      • Aug 18 2011

        :lol: – Sorry – my fault for having a slider theme! We’ll be celebrating within our hearts for a very long time, so you’ll never really be belated at all!

  7. Aug 17 2011

    ;) . The bunks remind me of a jail where I had to stay as a prisoner in for the month of January 2000 in Phoenix, Arizona, except that those were full of women. It was aweful, needless to say.

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  8. Aug 17 2011

    I love your theme and I am considering switching over to it. What is the picture with all of the bunk beds?

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  9. Aug 16 2011

    Your happiness brings me great happiness!

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    • Aug 16 2011

      Thank you John! It was the greatest couple of days……………. followed by lots more great days since!

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  10. Jul 8 2011

    Hi Robyn

    Your new site is very snazzy!

    Your patience has been rewarded. Wow! I h ope it all goes well for you.

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  11. Jun 29 2011

    I’m late as usual with all and everything – but I am so joyous for you and your family !!!

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    • Jun 29 2011

      Thanks, Jo! Better late than never – I’m late with EVERYTHING at the moment! This morning I am heading to the osteopath before work, so I’ve got a couple of minutes to reply to comments! :lol:

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  12. Jun 24 2011

    CONGRATS!!! I’m so happy for you :)

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    • Jun 24 2011

      Thanks – so are we! It has been 3 weeks now – 3 weeks today in fact – this time 3 weeks ago they walked through the doors at the airport right about now!

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  13. Jun 19 2011

    Wow!!! How happy i am for you!!! I just saw a newer post with you and your family and i realized i missed their arrival!! You must be really full of joy and energy. Congrats for all the effort you did put on this!!! I was worth it!!!

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    • Jun 19 2011

      Thank you! Sadly, we know of friends of ours also trying to get a visa (to another coutnry, in Europe) and they are also having problems. They married shortly after us in 2010. Different country, different rules, same problems basically.

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  14. Jun 13 2011

    I can’t remember how I stumbled upon your blog, as it has little in common with my life/blog now, but I was intrigued by your journey. I am back now, 6 months later? and have goosebumps at your family’s reunion. So happy for you!!!!

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  15. Jun 4 2011

    I’m so happy for you. :)

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  16. Jun 4 2011

    Well done and congratulations. A family to fight for and now to be together. So many happy days to you all!

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    • Jun 4 2011

      Thanks! I will post later today – but it has been a BIG night! Kids are in bed and we are about to finally go to bed too!

      Reply
  17. Alison
    Jun 3 2011

    BRILLIANT!!! I am so happy and excited for you all. This really bought a smile to my cranky Friday face :) Have a brilliant, fantastic, fun filled weekend – better crank up the heating though, they won’t know what’s hit them lol. Hugs to you all xxoo

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Oh, I know! I’m taking hoodies to the airport with me! It sure will be fun filled! I have 3 hours before I leave the house to collect them.

      Glad we brightened your day! :)

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  18. Jun 3 2011

    Wonderful news!!!! I can’t believe it has actually happened… We held our collective breaths for you these many weeks and followed the saga closely. I can imagine how exhausted you are/will be plus a new high.
    Enjoy the reunion and please keep us posted if even briefly… Love to each of them and welcome home too! :-)
    E

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    • Jun 3 2011

      There were times when I didn’t think it would either, Elizabeth, but in the end Australia saw the light and so we are reunited. :D :D :D

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  19. Jun 3 2011

    This is super news. I am over the moon for you. Have a super week reuniting with your beautiful family. Blessed be.

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  20. Jun 3 2011

    My sincere happiness and joy for you and your family! This made my day and you are an inspiration to us all!!
    Beth

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you! Probably no post today – I’m a little busy!!

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  21. Jun 3 2011

    OHBOYOHBOYOHBOY!!!! I’m crying for you here in New Jersey. Sooo happy to hear this!

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you! Your “OHBOYOHBOYOHBOY!!!!” is EXACTLY how I feel!!! :D :D :D

      Roughly 8.5 hours to go – the flight is running 30 minutes early last time I checked. It is a 14 hour flight from Doha normally, which is the second leg of the journey.

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  22. Jun 3 2011

    You have a lovely family. You deserve to have a wonderful time together. Make the best of it.

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you Paul! I can’t stop smiling! People will WANT me to leave work early today, as I am sure my excitment is annoying in some respects!

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  23. Vera Berry Burrows
    Jun 3 2011

    Congratulations, best wishes and lots of love and affection coming your way. I am so happy for you, Robyn. Have a wonderful life together. Do keep in touch. With much love to you and yours, Vera and Alan xx

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you! Definitely plan on keeping in touch – this is the start of a whole NEW adventure!

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      • Vera Berry Burrows
        Jun 3 2011

        Go girl! You are a wonderful example to us all.

  24. Jun 3 2011

    I am so happy for you, this has been a long journey and way past due. Enjoy !! my friend and keep us updated !! Hugs !

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Love the hugs, thank you. Will definitely keep everyone update – may just not be a post today! :D :D I’ll be a bit busy!

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  25. Jun 3 2011

    This is so exciting. Are the little ones going to need language lessons?

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    • Jun 3 2011

      No, they all speak English, it is the official language. The proficiency tests are a formality for anyone going into high school, so it is only the two older children who have the tests.

      Very exciting!!

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  26. Jun 3 2011

    I am SO happy for all of you.

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    • Jun 3 2011

      It is 6.30am now, I’ve had little sleep, and I’m still grinning like a Chesire cat – or is it the cat who got the cream? I don’t know – just HAPPY!!

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  27. Jun 3 2011

    Congratulations :) I can’t wait for the stories of your new family together!!!!

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    • Jun 3 2011

      I’m sure we will have plenty of interesting adventures!

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  28. Jun 3 2011

    Beautiful family and I am SO HAPPY for you! I’ll get caught up on those newly uncovered posts this weekend.

    Big, giant, crushing bear hugs to you! (( ))

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you thank you! I expect there will be lots of real bear hugs at the airport at arrival time! I must go to bed – it is 1:10am here :lol: but I’m not sleepy!!!!

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  29. Jun 3 2011

    That’s wonderful news!! I’m so happy for all of you. It should be quite a reunion. :)

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Oh it will be! Melanie is bringing the video camera to the airport and has made a huge sign to welcome them. I think they will be pretty exhausted when they arrive though. Even so, it will be good to have the video of their arrival!

      Now I just have to decide what to wear to the airport! :D

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  30. Jun 3 2011

    A handsome lot! Happy feet dance here. All the best for a happy future.

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thank you, thank you! One of my co-workers said to me today “Can’t you stop smiling?” Hehehe I started at my work shortly after all this started, so they have never known the “normal” me!

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  31. Jun 3 2011

    Such brilliant news! I am so happy for you all and it’s lovely to finally see that photo in your header unpixelated :)

    I’m going to have a read through some of those newly un-hidden posts too.

    Huge hugs xxx

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    • Jun 3 2011

      Thanks Eleanor! I should be in bed, but as you can imagine I don’t feel the slightest bit sleepy!!! I am SO EXCITED!!!!! :D :D :D

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  32. Jun 2 2011

    what a beautiful family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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